Being a Mother
Unlike
people that estrange their children, my everyday struggle is being a good
mother. The everyday struggles of poverty in my life make my job as a mother
even more difficult. I am a single mother and a full time student living off
welfare. My daughter’s name is Mariah and she is two years old. I am currently
looking for a part time job because I don’t even afford a single unit
apartment. I share a room with a roommate and that’s hard with a two year old.
I try to spend as much time out of my place because when I’m there I am
constantly telling Mariah, “Don’t touch that,” or “that’s not ours.” Also my driver’s
license is suspended due to juvenile failure to appear tickets. Which does not
make any sense to me because I’ve never had a license? But by law I have to pay
more than $2500 to unsuspend it. Although it is illicit for me to be driving I
still drive. Slowly but surely I plan to overcome the struggles of poverty that
make my life more difficult. For example, thankfully with the help from
financial aid I bought myself an old cheap car. Now I drive an 88 Toyota Camry.
Even Though it can’t go faster than 60mph and it can be pretty hot since it has
no tints, I don’t complain. It is better than walking in the sun, rain, wind,
storm... Better than waiting 30 minutes for a bus that’ll only drop you off
half the way you need to be. If that bus skips your stop for any reason it’ll
be an hour wait. With a car it is easier to look for a job now. Instead of
being despondent about my everyday struggles I am euphoric because I am
confident about overcoming the obstacles in my life.
Always remember it could be worse. Its good to know that you appriciate the little things in life. you only want the best for your daugther and everything you are doing will eventually pay off in the end!
ReplyDeleteI know it can be hard to be a single mother and especially with trying to support you and your daughter. But you can do it. The struggles you are going through are only going to make you a stronger person in the end and a even better mother. Never give up, Stay focused and everything will work itself out.(: #staystrong
ReplyDeleteYour doing good and dont giving up , all you want is a good life for your daughter.
ReplyDeleteYou can do it, you're doing great and don't give up.
ReplyDeleteGood luck finding a job and all of these struggles will make you a stronger person.♥
First, your daughter is gorgeous! Second, you should be proud of yourself! Not only are you continuing to study but you're also working your butt off in order to give your daughter a better childhood. By that I mean, since you're going to college you'll eventually get your degreee which means more money for you! & that will surely benefit you in many ways. Keep up the good work & never give up!
ReplyDeleteNever give up Julie! Keep going and you will succeed! I wish you the best of luck in your future endeavours
ReplyDeleteStay in school, so you can make things better for you and your daughter.
ReplyDeleteI wish you the best!
Just keep going to support Mariah. she may not understand now, but what she goes though now will make her better as she gets older.
ReplyDeleteBy being here in college as a full time student,working,and having a daughter to take care of just show's how much of a strong person you are. Don't give up! Things willl get better for you and her.Shes beautiful by the way
ReplyDeleteJulie, i admire you.You are the true definition of a strong willed individual who only wants the best for you and your beautiful daughter. I ask that you continue to strive for success and always keep your eyes on the prize cause in the end, it will all be worth it! Thing are you already looking up for you. Just stay positive and know that you have no one to prove but yourself. I wish you nothing but the best for you and your daughter! KEEP STRIVING!
ReplyDeleteI see it must be difficult going to school, raising a child and having responsibilities. Many people would envy you for that. I have a cousin who is also in your shoes and I hope you and all the young mothers hang in there.
ReplyDeleteYou're daughter is beautiful!
ReplyDeleteAnd you're doing a great job on being a mother.
Keep it up! I admire you, and all the other single moms out there. I hope the best for you and your little girl
first off, you and your daughter are very pretty! second, i know how it feels to share a house. my uncle shares a house w/ my grandparents while my dad and my other uncle have their own places. i wish the best for you and your family!! <3
ReplyDeleteNever give up because its worth it at the end.You will succed in life for you and your daughter.
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